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The Unfolding Enneagram

Enneagram education and conversation that focuses on personal development and strengthening relationships.

Further podcasts by Denee King

Podcast on the topic Selbstverwirklichung

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Christa Hardin of The Enneagram + Marriage from 2023-09-22T12:00

I'm so excited to be speaking with Christa Hardin, author of the book "The Enneagram in Marriage: Your Guide to Thriving Together in Your Unique Pairing." In The Enneagram in Marriage, readers w...

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Enneagram 8 Laura Palau of Simply B Organized from 2023-03-22T21:02

Laurie Palau is the author of the book  Listen

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The Enneagram Holiday Edition from 2022-12-04T16:11

Instead of focusing on the particular Enneagram types I want to talk a little about the Lower Level of all of numbers. What happens when we are trapped in habitual patterns of thinking and even ...

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These Are Your Power Years with Sara Smeaton, Enneagram 9 from 2022-11-22T13:00

“Now is when all your experience pairs with possibility.
That’s why these years are your Power Years™.

I love that quote from Sara Smeaton, creator of The Power Ye...

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Holiday Who-ville - Don’t Let Your Enneagram Grinch Steal Your Family Gathering from 2022-11-15T13:00

Type 1s - They already carry the core FEAR of Being wrong, bad, inappropriate or Immoral

They ARMOR UP by thinking….It’s not okay to make mistakes therefore.....I must st...

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Hélène Stelian Empowering Women In Midlife from 2022-11-07T13:15

Women in Midlife already know about change! There are conversations everywhere you look about transformation and change. But the conversations mostly discuss what we need to change FROM!! What d...

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A New Direction - The Enneagram and Midlife from 2022-08-30T16:55:47

Midlife Metamorphosis - A Revolution of Spirit

I've taken a refined direction...a place I feel 'at home'.
Carl Jung says..."The first half of life is devoted to forming a healthy eg...

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Plant, Root, Grow, Flourish with Kelsi Grove, Enneagram 9 from 2022-03-23T17:53:59

Kelsi is an enneagram 9 and licensed professional counselor in the Kansas Cit...

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Gracious Expectations with Shantris Fondren Enneagram 5 from 2022-03-08T19:59:53

How do you use your understanding of the Enneagram with people in your life without saying the word ‘enneagram’ ?  Shantris shares the beauty of simply being aware of the energy of other...

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Deep Listening Type 5 from 2021-12-08T13:00

Like many terms of phrases that have been used with the Enneagram for decades, recently we have begun to expand on the original ones - not change their core meaning b...

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Deep Listening Enneagram Type 4 from 2021-08-26T12:00

Today, let’s look at the childhood message for type 4: It almost seems impossible to think of a child hearing these words and the truth is….these exact words were most likely, never spoken but s...

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Deep Listening For Enneagram Type 3 from 2021-07-29T12:30

Who doesn’t love being applauded for a job well done? And which of us as parents or adults don’t love applauding the young - sometimes literally clapping after a performance? That’s natural and ...

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Deep Listening Enneagram Type 2 from 2021-07-22T12:00

What was the childhood message for enneagram type 2s? It was……“It’s not ok to have your own needs.”

How did that message get embedded in the unconscious mind of ...

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Deep Listening For Enneagram Type 1 from 2021-07-15T18:09:19

What is Deep Listening? It comes from the teachings of Buddhist Monk ticht nacht hahn. He says Deep Listening (or Compassionate Listening) is the kind of listening that can help relieve the suff...

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Recalculating from 2021-07-07T12:00

What do we do? What happens when you don’t know where you want to be but you just know you don’t want to be where you are?

My friend, Professional Business Coach, Listen

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The Deceitfulness of Good Conclusion from 2021-06-04T16:25:03

The Passion for For type 1s is ANGER. Type 1s are often called the Reformers and hold themselves to very high standards which is a good quality, right? SO…the deceitfulness of t...

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Deceitfulness of Good - Part 3 from 2021-05-26T13:45:32

As we continue to look at the deceitfulness of good through the enneagram perspectives we see how the passion, which comes ...

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The Deceitfulness of Good - Part II from 2021-05-19T12:00

"What we resist not only persists, but will grow in size." ~ Carl Jung

There are a couple of different words for what each Enneagram type resists - but typically they are referred to as T...

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Joel McKerrow, HUMAN and Enneagram 3 from 2021-05-13T11:00

My guest today is performance poet, Joel McKerrow. To try and describe what that means and what he does in a these...

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The Decitfulness of Good - Part 1 from 2021-05-06T16:45:28

We return to the podcast world today in a new series. The topic is the Deceitfulness of Good. We’re approaching this subject from multiple perspectives. Denée will be coming form the 9 perspecti...

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The Unworkable from 2021-03-10T19:31:15

Courage is knowing it might hurt and doing it anyway.
Stupidity is the same.
And that’s why life is hard.

When we are younger and trying to figure out how to…..
*Survive...

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An Influencer That Matters from 2021-02-04T15:00

I think we can all agree that our words matter. They can harm or help. They can inspire or destroy. What you say today isn’t confined to this moment in time. We may not be Instagram Influencers ...

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I Accidentally Won A Radio Contest from 2021-01-28T15:53:59

I think the Universe told me to take a time out or, as my granddaughter once said, "I'm just going to sit in this chair and think about it." She was three and who knows what she needed to sit an...

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IEA Georgia Presents Spiral Dynamics&The Enneagram from 2020-11-06T16:47:33

We are excited to share this information about the upcoming November meeting of the Georgia Chapter of the International Enneagram Association. While w...

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Crying - It's Not Just For The Weak from 2020-09-23T17:00:08

We've all heard the call to action..."Check on your strong friends" and while that is an absolutely great thing to do, today I'd like to encourage you to check on all your friends. And not just ...

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Enneagram 2, Jillian Henson Gilliam, Covid Confession Shocker from 2020-09-17T13:30

Jillian Henson Gilliam, Certified Enneagram Professional and Reiki Master is more than just a fellow Enneagram enthusiast. She’s my friend. I mean that but the truth is, if you ever meet Jillian...

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Enneagram 6, Sarah Paulk from 2020-09-10T14:00

Sarah Paulk is a journalist, writer, author, friend, cousin, wife, mom and Enneagram 6 and that's just a glimpse into who she truly is! Each descriptor is simply an aspect of Sarah because, as w...

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Enneagram 9 Emily Wingfield - Covid Confessions from 2020-09-03T12:00

Has knowing the Enneagram brought out the AHA moments of how you are facing Covid quarantine? Emily Wingfield shares observations from th...

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Back To School With Help From The Enneagram from 2020-08-27T14:31:30

Nancy Bartelt shares her love of children, teaching, her degree in music therapy and her love and her work with Enneagram in her recent online presentation of “Back to School with Help f...

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The Enneagram and Parenting with Jeannie Armbruster from 2020-08-20T12:00

Jeannie and her teaching partner, Mary Wright, are passionate about helping parents use the Enneagram to parent from a place of self awareness.  They offer workshops and will soon of...

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Quicksand from 2020-08-12T13:00

My word for 2020 is Quicksand. I feel like I’ve been stuck and just trying to keep my head above the muck and breath while simultaneously struggling to get out and RUN ...

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Gratitude with Catherine Robertson from 2020-03-31T17:26:26

At the time of this podcast release we are experiencing a global pandemic with the Corona Virus but Catherine and I recorded weeks before any of us knew what was happening. Now, the t...

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Ashlee Sikorski, Creator of Nine Shapes from 2020-03-25T16:28:17

Ashlee Sikorski is an ICF Certified Team Development Coach working with organizations to boost productivity and build an advantageous team culture. She is also the founder of the Nine...

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Evolution of Love pt. 3 from 2020-03-10T15:00:54

As Doug and I wrap up this section we get more into our personal stories and how those 'unworkable' moments forced us to question our long standing patterns ofListen

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Evolution of Love pt. 2 from 2020-03-04T17:12:27

A person's Level of Development (the SPIRAL) is the framework with which they understand the world. Their Level of Health within their Enneagram Type is the way in which they are present within ...

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Evolution of Love pt. 1 from 2020-02-25T18:38:52

This is part 1 of a 3-part series which is a recording of a presentation Doug and I did for the Georgia Chapter of the International Enneagram Association.

Doug and ...

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Practicing Joy Through the Enneagram from 2020-02-10T16:29:45

One of the challenges of being an Enneagram type 7 is the desire to act on all the ideas we have bombarding our minds and trust me, as a type 7 myself, they just keep coming! Part of ...

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The Enneagram and the Path to Healing from 2020-02-05T17:17:27

Samantha Mackay is a qualified coach, certified Personality Hacker profiler, runs her own training business, and calls New Zealand home after having lived, worked, and traveled around the world....

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Our Enneagram Number is Just One We Must Love from 2020-01-29T17:00:28

I started this podcast, Love Thy Number, to help us truly embrace the gift of who we are and, specifically, our Enneagram number. But what are the other numbers tha...

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Matt Thompson, Enneagram 9 - Keeping The Peace from 2020-01-21T20:45:29

I’m so excited to have Matt Thompson on this episode. Matt works behind the scenes to bring these podcasts to life! He’s also created all the beautiful graphics and web design for both ‘Love Thy...

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Alia Kache - The Perseverance of an Enneagram Type 1 from 2020-01-14T23:34:11

Alia Kache, a New York based dancer, choreographer, and educator, was born in Chattanooga, TN and attended a performing arts school beginning in the 6th grade. She soon earned a schol...

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Your Story Needs to be Told from 2019-12-17T17:55:56

I’ve been doing a lot of thinking about what my GOAL is for this podcast. I mean, that’s probably something  someone gifted with amazing organizational skills would h...

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Enneagram, Spiral Dynamics, and Levels of Health from 2019-12-10T17:19:40

Let's talk about the movies! Specifically, the cult classic, Napoleon Dynamite, and my favorite character, Uncle Rico.

It’s hard when you believe life would have worked out perfectly ‘if ...

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The Enneagram and The Work of Byron Katie from 2019-12-04T19:06:19

The Work of Byron Katie is a way of identifying and questioning any stressful thought. It consists of four questions and a turn around.

Question 1: Is it true?

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The Enneagram and the Roles We Play from 2019-11-12T21:57:50

In Enneagram conversations we talk a lot about the ego but what if you have an alter-ego? I have one! The definition of alter ego says, ”a person's secondary or alternative personality.” Now let...

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Using the Enneagram to Lead You Out of Darkness from 2019-11-06T15:51:08

How many therapists does it take to change a light bulb? One…but the light bulb really has to want to change.

**Crickets chirping** HA!

I’m making a ridiculous confession. I let a ...

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Using the Enneagram to Grow Your Marriage from 2019-10-29T19:13:08

"If forced to choose which do you prefer?" is how it all started.

Coconut cream pie or chocolate pie?

Skittles or Hershey’s with almonds?

Chocolate donuts or apple fritters?...

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Your Enneagram Home Base from 2019-10-16T14:13:52

We talk a lot about identity in regards to the Enneagram. We constantly say we are NOT our type or our number. 

I recently talked to a friend who has just begun peeking at the Enneagram, ...

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Enneagram Thinking and Feeling with Types 4 and 5 - Part 2 from 2019-10-08T15:54:16

Has anyone ever said to you…’You’re too much”?

Your thoughts are ‘too much’. Your feelings are ‘too much’.

Have you ever felt blinded by someone’s ‘light’ such as their emotions or...

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Enneagram Thinking and Feeling with Types 4 and 5 - Part 1 from 2019-10-02T15:37:26

In this conversation with Kevin Smith and Seth Creekmore, I was gifted with such insight into the way we embrace and avoid our emotions from our unique perspectives.  Each type process emotions ...

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This Enneagram 4 and 7 Make Marriage Fun from 2019-09-23T19:32:01

What did the brown cow say to the brown chicken? You'll have to listen for that answer but...this is one of my favorite podcasts ever! What a joy to be able to sit and chat with this amazing cou...

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An Enneagram 7's Story of Sexual Abuse - pt. 2 from 2019-09-18T12:02:16

Sammie and I continue our conversation of her story of growing up with a father who sexually assaulted her and the additional abuse and coverup behind the mask of religion from those in authorit...

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An Enneagram 7's Story of Sexual Abuse - pt. 1 from 2019-09-09T19:25:50

I have the honor of being able to call Samantha Horton my friend and fellow Enneagram type 7. I had the privilege of being able to sit with her as she shared her open and brutally honest story o...

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The Enneagram Journey of Learning and Losing from 2019-09-04T16:55:50

"The more you wake up to who you are, the more unbearable it becomes to be who you are NOT.”

This was the summer of moving for our family as four family units relocated. Some had outgrown...

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Predictive Text and the Enneagram from 2019-08-28T00:48:10

This beautiful quote from the book, Pillow Thoughts II, by Courtney Peppernell, sums up what this episode is about. 


"You can't skip chapters, that's not how life works. You have t...

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Enneagram Overload from 2019-08-20T14:23:27

What’s your number? Do you know you dominant wing? What about Instinct? Are you Social, Sexual, or Self Preservation? Arrows of integration and disintegration? What’s your stance? Aggressive, De...

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An Enneagram Perspective on Leaving Religion - pt. 2 from 2019-08-14T16:47:47

Earlene, Denée’s mother, and Denée each grew up in the same fundamental Christian denomination. Not only were they very active members of their church but their family history of church leadersh...

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An Enneagram Perspective on Leaving Religion - pt. 1 from 2019-08-06T18:47:36

As mother and daughter, Earlene Fowler and Denée King share a lifetime of being told ‘the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree’ or ‘they’re two peas in a pod’! Bu...

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Embracing the Pause with Kelly Smith, Enneagram 4 - pt. 2 from 2019-07-31T14:49:30

In part 2 of my conversation with Kelly I had the privilege of letting her share a part of her personal journal and her observation of how nature works in ways that might seem ineffective on the...

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Embracing the Pause with Kelly Smith, Enneagram 4 - pt. 1 from 2019-07-17T14:55:03

My guest is Kelly Smith from Peachtree City, Georgia. She is a singer/song writer and is a part of the group, Bread and Wine. She is also ...

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Why Learn the Enneagram? from 2019-07-09T17:39:46

Why Learn the Enneagram?

Growing together doesn’t mean becoming the same..it’s about understanding your differences and creating something fantastic from those uniqu...

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The Enneagram Journey May Not Be For Everyone from 2019-06-26T16:12:44

Don't Resist Resistance
 
German philosopher Arthur Schopenhauer said "All truth passes through three stages. First, it is ridiculed. Se...

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The Enneagram And Orientation To Time - pt. 2 from 2019-06-18T21:55:34

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The Enneagram and Orientation to Time - pt. 1 from 2019-06-11T19:14:58

What is Orientation to Time? 

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The Enneagram and the Evolution of Consciousness from 2019-06-03T16:18:30

The Enneagram is more than a personality test! So much more, in fact. It is a map of your personal evolution in consciousness.

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The Enneagram and Language Barriers from 2019-05-28T14:21:48

The Enneagram is like the Rosetta stone; it helps us understand each other's language. Language barriers are so often the cause of conflict and misunderstanding.  Listen
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Enneagram Types and Enneagram Numbers from 2019-05-21T19:02:32

"A rose by any other name would smell as sweet" is a popular reference to William Shakespeare's play Romeo and Juliet, in which Juliet seems to ...

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The Enneagram and Self Talk from 2019-05-12T15:54:14

We touch a bit on how world-views that are represented in Spiral Dynamics, a collective view, affect how each Enneagram number, our person...

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Discovering The Enneagram In the Back Seat of a Cadillac from 2019-04-30T20:11:05

Welcome to the launch of an Enneagram centered conversation podcast called "Love Thy Enneagram Number". Most of us grew up knowing the bible verse, “Love thy neighbor as thyself” but ...

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