Vanquishing Victimhood So You Can Trust and Love Again with the Founder of the Post-Betrayal Transformation Institute, Dr. Debi Silber on Divorce&Beyond #208 - a podcast by Susan Guthrie, Esq.
from 2021-11-15T05:00
This week on Divorce & Beyond, Dr. Debi Silber, the Founder of the Post-Betrayal Transformation Institute is back to visit with Host, Susan Guthrie, and she is here to help you break free from the victim mentality that can accompany the betrayal of a loved one, including adultery and financial infidelity.
Dr. Debi is a holistic psychologist whose ground-breaking research on the topic of betrayal and recovery led her to identify the four stages of betrayal and create a program to help people move beyond the pain and heal so that they can thrive and be happy again. Unfortunately, many people find themselves stuck in Stage 2 of the process, dwelling in the victim role, the hurt, anger and rage. There are many valid reasons to remain in this space but they will keep you from moving forward and beyond the betrayal to live a healthy and happy life.
In this episode, Dr. Debi outlines the four stages of the process and shares tips and insights into the "whys" and "hows" of healing and learning to trust again. She herself has been down the path and healed and that in and of itself is a story worth listening to this episode for!
As a VERY SPECIAL GIFT for listeners of Divorce & Beyond, Dr. Debi is giving away THREE of HER BEST-SELLING BOOKS to one very lucky person. Just listen to the episode all the way to the end to learn how to win!
Contact Dr. Debi:
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Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/debisilber/
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Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/debisilber
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Get the Trust Again book and bonuses: https://thepbtinstitute.com/trustagain/
The Unshakable Woman: https://amzn.to/3DlJzFK
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New book: From Hardened to Healed: The Effortless Path to Release Resistance, Get Unstuck, and Create a Life You Love: https://amzn.to/321sFhX
MORE INFORMATION ABOUT THIS WEEK'S SPECIAL GUEST: DR. DEBI SILBER
Dr. Debi Silber is the founder of the Post Betrayal Transformation Institute and is a holistic psychologist, a health, mindset and personal development expert, the author of the #1 bestselling book: The Unshakable Woman: 4 Steps to Rebuilding Your Body, Mind and Life After a Life Crisis and her newest book: Trust Again: Overcoming Betrayal and Regaining Health, Confidence and Happiness. Her recent PhD study on how we experience betrayal made 3 groundbreaking discoveries that changes how long it takes to heal. In addition to being on FOX, CBS, The Dr. Oz Show, TEDx (twice) and more, she’s an award-winning speaker, coach and author dedicated to helping people move past their betrayals as well as any other blocks preventing them from the health, work, relationships, confidence, and happiness they want most.
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