Ep 84: How Can Tops Achieve an Altered Mindspace in Rope? (Listener Question) - a podcast by rope partners Fox and Mya, The Rope Podcast is an adult podcast about rope bondage, Shibari and Kinbaku. Listen for discussions of ties, rope topics and news, interviews, reviews of events and rope gear, and listener questions.
from 2020-12-07T02:00:05
@Bravo_Juliet, a rope bottom and listener from the UK, asks the Rope Podcast whether a top can experience some of the feelings and headspace that are more traditionally associated with bottoms as she asks: “Can rope be relaxing for tops too?”
Fox and Mya explore this topic, touching on:
* What ‘bottom space’ in rope might look like
* Cathartic triggers for bottoms
* Pros and cons of altered headspace in rope
* The importance of not pressuring yourself to feel a certain way in rope
* The influence of the bottom’s emotions on the top
* Barriers to a top relaxing in rope
* How a bottom can support a top to a different headspace in rope
* The limited research on altered mindstates in tops and bottoms in BDSM
* Fox’s experience of a different headspace as a rigger
* Conditions to achieve ‘flow state’
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