Podcasts by Married Millennials
Joy and Justin are relationship coaches breathing new life into America’s oldest tradition. The weekly show tackles the complex intricacies of being a millennial – dating, sex, student loans, finances, and everything in between.
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Money Is A Thang from 2019-02-05T11:00:43
Justin and Joy discuss embarking on a new decade of life and the challenges married couples face by keeping their money separate.
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UnbeWEAVEable from 2019-01-29T11:00:07
Justin and Joy discuss the power of stillness and intuition and dive into the latest men’s fashion: weave.
ListenPermission Granted from 2019-01-22T11:00:24
Justin and Joy discuss the unseen impact people have on each other and missing out on opportunities by denying ourselves permission to just be us.
Listen#RelationshipGoals from 2019-01-08T11:00:01
Justin and Joy welcome in the new year sharing their honest reflection on 2018 and discuss how relationship goals shouldn’t be anyone’s goal.
ListenThird Wheelin’ from 2018-12-18T11:00:31
Justin and Joy discuss the importance of maintaining your friendship independence while in a relationship and the downside of realism.
ListenThat Was Unexpected from 2018-12-11T11:00:35
Justin and Joy discuss the value of life not always happening the way it’s “supposed to" and how political and social polarization isn’t solving problems.
ListenSwallow Your Pride from 2018-12-04T11:00:33
Justin and Joy prepare for their upcoming holiday trip to New York and share a powerful lesson about perseverance and understanding.
ListenBeautiful vs. Hot from 2018-11-27T11:00:17
Justin and Joy recap their Thanksgiving failure and discuss the key differences between beauty and hotness.
ListenGreece Lightnin’ from 2018-11-20T16:10:17
Justin and Joy recap their two-week vacation in Greece.
ListenPumpkin Pie from 2018-11-13T11:00:47
Justin and Joy open the floor for a detailed Q&A session and discuss the key differences between compromise and sacrifice.
ListenOpposites Attract from 2018-10-23T10:00:36
Justin and Joy discuss the fear of outgrowing your partner and how to overcome it.
ListenBabies and Breakups from 2018-10-16T10:00:43
Justin and Joy discuss the challenges of releasing limited beliefs and navigating conversations that don’t interest you.
ListenGhostbusters from 2018-10-09T10:00:15
Justin and Joy reflect on the power of apology and engage in the most inappropriate game of “would you be more mad if…”
ListenThe Myth Of Motivation from 2018-10-02T10:00:09
Justin and Joy discuss the importance of trimming the fat and why motivation is overrated.
ListenNeighborhood Watch from 2018-09-25T10:00:17
Justin and Joy discuss the power of vision statements and the dangerous side effects of ghosting.
ListenPajama Jam from 2018-09-18T10:00:39
Justin and Joy discuss bedtime attire and how their relationship with their parents has evolved throughout adulthood.
ListenTwenty-Fine from 2018-09-11T10:00:17
Justin and Joy discussing refining all aspects of their life and learning to accept the casualties of growth.
ListenMaster The Approach from 2018-09-04T10:00:40
Justin and Joy suggest a new HR practice all companies should implement and share a few helpful tricks to help men approach women.
ListenConversational Cleanse from 2018-08-28T10:00:52
Justin and Joy discuss society’s diminishing communication skills and why Joy has officially quit social media.
ListenWe All Win from 2018-08-21T10:23:14
Justin and Joy celebrate their wedding anniversary by sharing three important lessons they've learned over the past three years.
ListenIllusion Of Choice from 2018-08-14T10:00:53
Justin and Joy continue to declutter all areas of their life and share how letting go has brought a renewed sense of purpose and clarity.
ListenCall Me By My Name from 2018-08-07T10:00:19
Justin and Joy discuss why “no new friends” is the worst slogan to live by and how they would react if someone they were dating called them another person’s name.
ListenSouthern Hospitality from 2018-07-31T10:00:53
Justin and Joy recap their trip to Atlanta and discuss the importance of being intentional, yet calm while dating.
ListenTo Infinity and Beyond from 2018-07-24T10:00:54
Justin and Joy discuss their experience with a medium and share their journey on ridding themselves of judgment.
ListenStop Waiting For The One from 2018-07-10T10:00:41
Justin and Joy discuss the existence of soulmates and whether or not we are destined to spend the rest of our lives with one “special” person.
ListenFinding The Good In The Bad from 2018-07-03T10:00:23
Justin and Joy discuss losing the entire recording of this week’s episode and the power of positive thinking.
ListenIn The Beginning… from 2018-06-26T10:00:30
Justin and Joy have a candid conversation about the memories they’ve shared over the past 10 years and the importance of finding the new within the old.
Listen30 Days of Forgiveness from 2018-06-19T10:00:30
Justin and Joy reflect on the lessons learned from the upcoming Whitney documentary and dive into the power of forgiveness.
ListenLeading With Compassion from 2018-06-12T10:00:10
Joy reflects on the importance of approaching suicide with compassion and shares four essential elements for managing mental illness.
ListenMind Over Matter from 2018-06-05T10:00:46
Justin and Joy discuss the importance of investing in your business and the images of black men in media and the role they play in our community.
ListenKicked Out The House from 2018-05-29T10:00:31
Justin and Joy recap her five-day social hiatus and dive into an unscripted conversation about criticism within their relationship.
ListenBlack Women Deserve Better from 2018-05-22T10:00:45
Justin and Joy recap the Royal Wedding and break down the key takeaways from their singles mixer and panel discussion.
ListenAdult ADHD from 2018-05-15T10:00:35
Justin and Joy discuss how prioritizing wellness has positively impacted their relationship and share their journey with managing ADHD in their marriage.
ListenThis Is America from 2018-05-08T10:00:50
Justin and Joy discuss how DJ Khaled is missing a MAJOR KEY and collect their minds after Donald Glover SHOOK the internet.
ListenWatch Your Mouth from 2018-04-24T10:00:07
Justin and Joy discuss the power of words and how their love language has evolved over the years.
ListenThe Way My Bank Account Is Setup from 2018-04-10T10:00:53
Justin and Joy reflect on the power of meditation and provide an intimate look at the not so glamorous entrepreneurial life.
ListenBaby Fever from 2018-04-03T10:00:04
Justin and Joy discuss the unexpected awkwardness surrounding family planning conversations and actually saying the words, “I’m sorry.”
ListenF*ck Washing Dishes from 2018-03-27T13:37:27
Justin and Joy share their mixed emotions about March For Our Lives and share how washing dishes revealed an on going struggle within their relationship.
ListenDating Should Be Easy from 2018-03-20T05:31:59
Justin and Joy weigh in on the Bruno Mars cultural appropriation debate and discuss the unnecessary complexities associated with dating.
ListenSome Type Of Way from 2018-03-13T05:08:39
Justin and Joy recap their miserable attempt at an R&R weekend and discuss how focusing too much on business has led to a lack of appreciation as husband and wife.
ListenWork Allergies from 2018-03-06T11:00:10
Justin and Joy celebrate their 100th episode by discussing the challenges they’ve faced as business partners and finding a solution to play to each other’s strengths.
ListenOne Hair Wonder from 2018-02-27T11:00:33
Justin and Joy discuss the dangers of skydiving, recap their first live event with Brunch2Bomb, and celebrate the launch of Purpose Over Profit™.
ListenNoteworthy from 2018-02-13T11:00:36
Justin and Joy gear up for Black Panther while discussing their feelings about Valentine’s Day, the downside of photo filters, and the difference between fault and responsibility.
ListenBetter Luck Next Time from 2018-02-06T11:00:55
Justin and Joy discuss their differing opinions on birthday celebrations, revisit their experience with celibacy, and redefine the role sex plays within a relationship.
ListenBlast From The Past from 2018-01-30T11:00:30
Joy revisits her experience with Past Life Regression therapy and Justin shares his perspective on being a supportive husband along Joy’s spiritual journey.
ListenWelcome to Married Millennials from 2018-01-28T17:59:55
Joy and Justin are former relationship bloggers breathing new life into America's oldest tradition: marriage. The weekly show tackles the complex intricacies of being a millennial – dating, sex, st...
ListenLet It Shine from 2018-01-23T11:00:28
Justin and Joy recap their trip to Walt Disney World, discuss the struggle disenfranchised communities face turning in-home conversations to action, and how changing their diet helped them unplug f...
ListenEmbracing Your Journey from 2018-01-16T11:00:12
Justin and Joy share the importance of creating a safe space when solving problems, supporting your partner through difficult transitions, and embracing life’s unexpected journey with gratitude.
ListenLiving Purposefully from 2018-01-09T11:00:28
Justin and Joy discuss the changing tide of equality in the workplace, their new weekly wellness newsletter, and how an unexpected meeting changed the entire course of 2018.
ListenNew Year, Better You from 2018-01-02T11:00:11
Justin and Joy celebrate the new year by sharing their 2018 theme, introduce their new wellness newsletter, and unpack the misconceptions behind self-concern.
ListenHow To Accomplish Your Goals from 2017-12-26T11:00:33
Justin and Joy recap the goals they accomplished in 2017, including their web series with Blavity and booking their first TV interview, and discuss the importance of living life with intention.
ListenA Timely Debate from 2017-12-19T11:00:36
Justin and Joy continue their ongoing debate about compromise, timeliness, and patience.
ListenDon’t Get Married from 2017-12-12T11:00:27
Justin and Joy discuss the importance of vacations and break down one woman’s confused and misguided belief in marriage prerequisites.
ListenWhy We Lie About Sex from 2017-12-05T11:00:43
Justin and Joy break down why most young men are triflin’, generational wealth, and how to react if your partner expresses their disappointment with your sex game.
ListenTeamwork Makes The Dream Work from 2017-11-28T11:00:36
Justin and Joy discuss who they’re thankful for this holiday season, the benefits of therapy, and how teamwork has anchored their relationship and marriage.
ListenWhy I Hate Potlucks from 2017-11-21T11:00:54
Justin and Joy share their sentiments on holiday potlucks and discuss finding their marriage groove.
ListenMale Privilege from 2017-11-14T11:00:22
Justin and Joy discuss how male privilege leads to rape culture and the responsibility men have in creating a safe space for women.
ListenAmerica’s Favorite Headline from 2017-11-07T11:00:30
Justin and Joy discuss the tragedy in San Antonio and reflect on living a purposeful life.
ListenParanormal Activity from 2017-10-31T10:00:13
Justin and Joy recap the importance of mental health and discuss Joy’s experience with a spiritual medium.
ListenNathan Cheney | A Fatherless Generation from 2017-10-24T10:00:12
Justin and Joy sit down with director and producer, Nathan Cheney, to discuss how growing up without a father has impacted every aspect of his life, overcoming his battle with suicide and depressio...
ListenHello Patience, Goodbye Ego from 2017-10-17T10:00:26
Justin and Joy premiere their first online e-course and discuss the complex world of infidelity.
ListenDr. Allycin Hicks | Why Therapy Works from 2017-10-10T10:00:43
Justin and Joy sit down with mental health expert, Allycin Hicks, to discuss the negative stigmas surrounding therapy, the importance of genuine personal relationships, and how her psychology backg...
ListenMental Health Matters from 2017-10-03T10:00:22
Joy gives an intimate look into her experience with anxiety and depression, including tips on maintaining your mental health.
ListenThe Divided States of America from 2017-09-26T10:00:59
Justin and Joy discuss forty-five’s poor leadership and the outcry regarding the national anthem protest.
ListenHella Insecure from 2017-09-12T10:00:04
Justin and Joy give a complete breakdown of HBO’s hit series, Insecure.
ListenLeslie Antonoff | The Haute Mommie from 2017-09-05T10:00:10
Justin and Joy sit down with television host, Leslie Antonoff, to discuss her experience as a young mother, Issa Rae's influence on her career, and the importance of persistence.
ListenTasteful Nudes from 2017-08-29T10:00:40
Justin and Joy discuss the challenge of separating artistry from the artist and society's entitlement to a woman's body.
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It Takes Two from 2017-08-22T10:00:32
Justin and Joy celebrate their two-year wedding anniversary and share three lessons they learned in their second year of marriage.
Listen(Alt)ernate Reality from 2017-08-15T10:00:17
Justin and Joy relive partying with Beyoncé and Jay-Z and dissect white fragility following the events in Charlottesville.
ListenNate Howard | Tell Your Story Before They Do from 2017-08-08T10:00:44
Justin and Joy sit down with motivational speaker and entrepreneur, Nate Howard, to discuss how his experience with the LAPD shaped his career path, becoming a full-time entrepreneur, and influenci...
Listen(S)expectations from 2017-08-01T10:00:06
Justin and Joy discuss sexual compatibility, the negative effects of taboo subjects, and using “female” to describe a woman.
ListenLena Waithe | Hollywood Is Life from 2017-07-25T10:00:17
Justin and Joy sit down with Lena Waithe to discuss her recent Emmy nomination, relationship with a Hollywood executive, and the importance of having television content reflective of black culture....
ListenCassy Athena | Stay In Your Frame from 2017-07-18T10:00:03
Justin and Joy sit down with sports and lifestyle photographer, Cassy Athena, to discuss her incredible journey through photography, overcoming a brain tumor, and the value of developing intimate p...
ListenMove! Get Out The Way from 2017-07-11T10:00:22
Justin and Joy review their mid-year progress report, discuss the balance between identifying problems vs. creating solutions, and life's biggest obstacle.
ListenDating While Broke from 2017-07-04T10:00:49
Justin and Joy discuss the complicated first date and the art of dating creatively.
ListenDaffany Clark | Picking Up The Pieces from 2017-06-27T10:00:53
Justin and Joy sit down with actress, Daffany Clark, to discuss her unique upbringing in Chicago, dating in Los Angeles, and the importance of having a father figure in your life.
ListenLike vs. Love from 2017-06-20T10:00:37
Justin and Joy discuss the differences between liking and loving your partner.
ListenNo Panties, No Problem from 2017-06-13T10:00:29
Justin and Joy react to Amber Rose's viral photo and the importance of body positivity.
ListenSex Makes Babies from 2017-06-06T10:00:28
Justin and Joy discuss living in a fear based society, our newfound mental clarity, and the ineffective pull-out method.
ListenTom Williamson | A One Woman Man from 2017-05-30T10:00:27
Justin and Joy sit down with actor, Tom Williamson, to discuss his blossoming acting career, journey healing after his father's passing, and complicated relationship status.
ListenGive Me Some Credit from 2017-05-23T10:00:26
Justin and Joy discuss the importance of having a best friend who gets along with your significant other and leveraging credit responsibly.
ListenCaught Faking It from 2017-05-16T10:00:11
Justin and Joy discuss how to navigate your relationship when the feelings just aren't the same.
ListenAccording To Plan from 2017-05-09T10:00:25
Justin and Joy discuss adjusting after a breakup with a close friend and how spending a little extra money can make all the difference.
ListenSex and Good Vibes from 2017-05-02T10:00:27
Justin and Joy discuss good vibes, the importance of questioning your beliefs, and goal setting.
ListenBlaming Everyone Except Yourself from 2017-04-25T10:00:51
Justin and Joy discuss accepting responsibility for your emotional well-being and playing the blame game.
ListenSex With My Friend’s Ex from 2017-04-18T10:00:07
Justin and Joy discuss whether or not they would date one of their friend's former partner.
ListenThou Shall Not Snitch On Thyself from 2017-04-11T15:07:07
Justin and Joy debate if it's okay to keep a secret from your significant other.
ListenTime To Let Go from 2017-03-28T10:00:09
Justin and Joy discuss the importance of letting go and finding the right perspective on happiness.
ListenWhen FOMO Wins from 2017-03-21T10:00:14
Justin and Joy relive the moment when FOMO finally caught up with Justin.
ListenWhat’s Love Got To Do With It? from 2017-03-14T10:00:23
Justin and Joy discuss maintaining consistent levels of love and the problems with unbalanced relationship advice.
ListenReal Life Relationship Goals from 2017-03-07T11:00:36
Justin and Joy break down the misconceptions about relationship goals.
ListenSo Get Out and ShEther Happened… from 2017-02-28T11:00:56
Justin and Joy dissect Jordan Peele's "Get Out" and Remy Ma's TOO TRILL diss about Nicki Minaj.
ListenIn the Mood for Love from 2017-02-14T11:00:10
Justin and Joy discuss how they've celebrated Valentine's Day over the past nine years.
ListenExpect the Unexpected from 2017-02-07T11:00:58
Justin and Joy discuss the importance of managing expectations in your relationship.
ListenWith The Stroke Of A Pen from 2017-01-31T11:00:11
Justin and Joy discuss a series of Donald Trump's executive orders.
ListenA Million Women Marched…Now What? from 2017-01-24T11:00:42
Justin and Joy discuss Donald Trump's inauguration and the hope behind the Million Women's March.
ListenIs It Time to Breakup with Makeup? from 2017-01-17T11:00:50
Justin and Joy discuss the impact makeup has had on today's perceived beauty standards.
ListenBarack’s Rock from 2017-01-10T11:00:11
Justin and Joy discuss the powerful dynamic between Barack and Michelle Obama.
ListenSh*t Happens from 2017-01-03T11:00:57
Justin and Joy ring in the new year and discuss their conflicting views on productivity.
ListenGoodbye, 2016 from 2016-12-27T11:00:25
Justin and Joy review 2016 and share their plans for the upcoming year.
ListenI’ll Be Home For Christmas from 2016-12-20T16:35:06
Justin and Joy share the evolution of their Christmas traditions.
ListenWelcome to Marriage from 2016-12-13T11:00:14
Justin and Joy share their rude awakening about life as a married couple.
ListenDisappearing Act from 2016-12-06T11:00:02
Justin and Joy discuss the ongoing battle of how they spend their time together.
ListenBusy Doing Nothin’ from 2016-11-29T11:00:02
Justin and Joy break down why being "busy" has become the new normal.
ListenBeans, Greens, Potatoes, Tomatoes from 2016-11-22T11:00
Justin and Joy discuss the struggle of finding a balance between financial responsibility and YOLO-ing.
ListenAbout Last Week from 2016-11-15T11:00:51
Justin and Joy discuss the results of last week's presidential election.
ListenBlack Men vs. Black Women from 2016-11-01T10:00:19
Justin and Joy unpack Trick Daddy's degrading comments about black women.
ListenBallin’ On A Budget from 2016-10-25T10:00:47
Justin and Joy have a dilemma and need your help: should they buy or lease their next car?
ListenLocker Room Talk from 2016-10-18T10:00:27
Justin and Joy review their trip to New York and dive into Trump's "locker room talk".
ListenGrind Time from 2016-10-11T10:00:40
Justin and Joy discuss balancing their financial obligations while pursuing creative endeavors.
ListenSex Dreams & Car Doors from 2016-10-04T10:00:27
Justin and Joy discuss their not so appropriate dreams and why he refuses to open her car door.
ListenSocial Deconstruction from 2016-09-27T10:00:34
Justin and Joy re-open the conversation about race in America and dating people with conflicting political views.
ListenCelibacy: The Road Less Traveled from 2016-09-20T10:00:50
Justin and Joy share the lessons learned along their three-and-a-half year journey through celibacy.
ListenRidin’ Solo from 2016-09-13T10:00:21
Justin and Joy reminisce about the freedoms associated with being single.
ListenAnalysis Paralysis from 2016-09-06T10:00:09
Justin and Joy discuss the struggle of answering life's toughest question: What the hell am I doing?
ListenPut A Title On It from 2016-08-30T10:00:58
Justin and Joy discuss the slippery slope of dating without titles.
Listen366 Days of Marriage from 2016-08-22T10:00:34
Justin and Joy share some of the lessons learned in their 1st year of marriage.
ListenWhy So Thirsty? from 2016-08-16T10:00:23
Justin and Joy discuss why men feel the need to gawk at women.
ListenNetflix & Chill with a Side of Chipotle from 2016-08-09T10:00:19
Justin and Joy discuss how dating has changed over the past 10 years.
ListenDown in the DM from 2016-08-02T10:00:20
Justin and Joy discuss proper protocol on receiving nudes via Snapchat. And we don't see eye to eye.
ListenProposalversary from 2016-07-19T10:00:54
Justin and Joy share the story of their 2014 proposal.
ListenRace: A Conversation from 2016-07-12T10:00
Justin and Joy discuss the uncomfortable truth regarding race relations in America.
ListenThe American Dream from 2016-07-05T10:00:09
Justin and Joy discuss shared bank accounts, financial setbacks, and striving for the American Dream.
ListenFriendship Custody from 2016-06-28T10:00:04
Justin and Joy discuss who gets "custody" of their friends after a breakup.
ListenInvesting In Your Partner from 2016-06-21T10:00:31
Justin and Joy discuss the importance of investing in your relationship and the myths on how to keep your significant other.
ListenNo Phone Zone from 2016-06-14T10:00:56
Justin and Joy discuss the dependency our culture has with technology, social media, and the illusion of connection.
ListenRelationship Roles from 2016-06-07T10:00:14
Justin and Joy discuss the woes of expected gender roles within their relationship.
ListenThe One – When You Know, You Know from 2016-05-31T10:00:02
Justin and Joy discuss the moment they knew their relationship would last a lifetime.
ListenWedding Guest Etiquette 101 from 2016-05-24T10:00:06
Justin and Joy provide insight from the bride and groom perspective on the do's and don'ts of being a wedding guest.
ListenFollow Your Dreams Strategically from 2016-05-17T10:00:48
Justin and Joy discuss the value of time, transitioning into adulthood after college, self-identity, and following your dreams strategically.
ListenWhen You Don’t Care To Share from 2016-05-10T10:00:45
Justin and Joy recap Mother's Day weekend, splitting holidays, and the ongoing battle of sharing their food.
ListenWhen The Toilet Won’t Flush from 2016-05-03T10:00:02
Justin and Joy discuss the body's most taboo function: Poop.
Listen#LEMON(SH)ADE from 2016-04-26T10:00:26
Justin and Joy react to Beyoncé's newest album, LEMONADE. Spoiler Alert: We address ALL the shade!
ListenThe Secret Sauce from 2016-04-19T23:44:29
Justin and Joy explore how they have maintained their relationship for the past 8 years. Can you guess the special ingredients in their secret sauce?
ListenRock, Paper, Scissors from 2016-04-11T01:14:36
Welcome to Married Millennials, a conversation about being young, in love, and navigating life one student loan at a time. Join Justin and Joy as they introduce us to their world in the pilot episode.
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